Phrases That Spark Conversation with Your Toddler

10 Easy Prompts That Open the Door to Connection + Language 

Let’s be honest—toddlers are full of stories, ideas, and wild imaginations… but sometimes, getting more than a one-word answer can feel like pulling teeth. 

Whether your little one is chatty, shy, or still finding their words, the way we talk to them matters. At Growing Juntos, we believe everyday moments are powerful chances to grow language—word by word, phrase by phrase. 

Here are 10 simple, open-ended prompts that spark conversation, curiosity, and connection—at home, on the go, or in your coziest blanket fort. 

Why It Matters 

Open-ended phrases do more than just fill the silence. They help toddlers:

• Build expressive language
• Develop thinking and reasoning
• Feel heard and connected
• Learn how to take turns in conversation 

And the best part? You don’t need anything fancy—just a few thoughtful words and some unhurried time. 

10 Phrases That Get Kids Talking 

Perfect for car rides, nature walks, or window gazing. Builds observation and vocabulary. 

Instead of guessing, invite them to describe their drawing. Builds storytelling and confidence. 

Use during storytime or pretend play. Encourages sequencing and creative thinking. 

Helps children connect with their emotions. Builds emotional vocabulary. 

Great for when they’re building, climbing, or creating. Encourages explanation and pride. 

Invite collaboration during routines like cleaning or cooking. Builds problem-solving and planning. 

Perfect during pretend play or reading. Helps them describe characters and roles. 

Use during meals, books, outings, or games. Encourages reflection and personal opinion. 

A simple clean-up prompt that invites reasoning and categorization. 

Use with books or real-life scenes. Bilingual bonus: expands language in both English and Spanish. 

Pro Tip: Let Silence Happen 

It’s okay if your toddler takes a moment (or five!) to respond. Silence gives them space to process, and when they do answer—listen with intention. Your attention tells them, your words matter. 

Try This at Storytime 

While reading books—especially your Growing Juntos favorites—pause and try:

• “What do you think he’s doing?”
• “How would you feel if that happened?”
• “¿Qué ves en la página?” (What do you see on the page?) 

Even if your child isn’t using full sentences yet, these questions build understanding, expression, and connection that lasts. 

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Try one of these phrases today and tag us @growingjuntosco with your favorite response—we LOVE hearing the little things your kids say.